The Story of a Love

This is the story of a real romance, between a man and a woman, seen solely from the perspective of the man. The story is reported live, as it happens. The outcome is not clear - could go either way. If you are here the first time, the blog should be read from the end, to get the "whole story" in the right timeline sequence.

Thursday, March 02, 2006

Comfort in email communication

While I am at my business meeting, I try not to get too much distracted by this whole thing with her. And since it is developing quite positively, it does not have a negative impact on me. In fact, I am invigorated, quite active in the meeting, since I have this positive push from this developing relationship. I write to her everything that happened, it almost is as if she is here with me.

There is a danger in this e-mail-only relation: it may present a different image than reality. We only had met so briefly not even a week ago, and we are already in quite intensive exchanges. With email it is like with the old letter-pal method: people get access to each other in ways that during a normal conversation would not be possible: one can express themselves, and without distraction from external factors, the souls can speak to each other directly. But humans are not only souls… they have real-life needs and desires. And these are not so much covered in the emails. Danger is that one sees only that subset that is presented through the carefully worded emails – one may miss the real personality.

But for now I will not care for these fine considerations – I am very glad to be in regular email contact for now – we will meet more when she is back from her travel.

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