Boyfriend rules

The situation is getting more and more perverse.
We did establish a level of friendship now, whatever that exactly means. Well, it means that I should respect her relationship with her boyfriend, because she seems to believe in this relationship a lot. And I shall be a very good friend, for interesting discussions, and for advice.

Ok, that is not how I imagined this would continue. But if I am looking at it reasonably: we still did not have a "real" meeting, a real talk. So far our whole relation has been in emails and SMS. And in two formal business meetings, where nobody could show any sign of affection. So from her point of view, it is somewhat logical that she first needs to get to know me. She does not seem to trust the deep connection that we have made already in our communications, whereas I trust this connection a lot. I am willing to bet my whole life on it.

The annoying thing is: now is a weekend. And this would be a great time to do something together, in an informal way, some excursion, some going out. But no, the boyfriend is here. And I have to remain quiet. No SMS so as not to upset him. Supposedly he already knows my name and is not too thrilled about my intrusion into their relationship.